Got this from Noemi, with major revisions. It’s actually something that I haven’t discussed here so it’s time to sit down and think. What type of guy rocks my world? 😛
1. The first thing that comes to mind is sense of humor. It’s not only the fact that he can make me laugh to the point that his nostrils are contracting and he’s already being corny..it’s also being able to laugh at my jokes and yes, even if the joke’s already on him. Because my humor can be acerbic sometimes, bawal ang pikon.
2.Two things am OC about: grammar and hygiene. Not that you have to have an impeccable grammar for as long as we can communicate well and you don’t say things like “I wanna reap your clothes baby,” as what a guy said to me one time, which was enough to let me fall off my rocker.
Hygiene is self-explanatory. Not taking a bath for two days when you’re only living with your cats and dogs is understandable, but reeking of sweat and cigarette breath when you’re about to meet somebody is a turn-off. Being consistently clean is also a given. Apparently some people take this for granted when they’ve already established their own comfort zones. I can take skid marks on my marble floor, not on your underwear…ewwwe.
3. Vegetarian/budgetarian…not! I like a man who enjoys his food because then we can dine together or he can inspire me to cook. But not to the point of being a glutton. A man who piles food on his plate like he was building a replica of Mt. Everest will surely make me wince.
Budgetarian? I admire a man who can plan the future and handles his finances well but not to the point that we can’t already enjoy life together. I don’t like stingy-wingy kuripot guys. Maybe it’s being spoiled stiff by the ex-boyfriend who gives me shopping moolah up to now without absolutely any strings attached. A man should indulge a woman’s shopping fixation once in a while..it’s the closest way to her heart 😛
4. Athletic and fit. Some Body who goes to the gym and plays at least one sport, preferably with muscles in the right places.Some Body who can be a good influence to me when it comes to working out.
5. Tall or short? No comment. 😛
6. Big or small ? Too much of a good thing isn’t so great but not too small that even a pap smear feels more arousing. Ouch. 😛
7. Has integrity. My girl friends and I have agreed that Pinoy guys (or is it men in general?) don’t always say what they mean and mean what they say. They say they adore you today but you’ll never know what floats their boat tomorrow. A man who stays true to his promise, who isn’t the stereotypical indifferent, philandering lad deserves to be prized like a gem by even the most fervent feminists.
noemi says
OO nga naman he should match your sense of humor. Enjoyed your answers. The thing is I am so OCD about skid marks on the floor. Just as important to me. hehe
Linnor says
# 6 is hilarious! 😀
ajay says
Hi Noemi. The skid marks should get high marks then 😛
Yes Linnor, I had to include #6 coz I don’t want to ever wonder if it’s in or not, LOL 😀
yourman says
your search is over. I’m your man.
I’ve got to check with my mother first though.
ajay says
Yourman…. LOL 😀
yourman says
one down, six to go.
somebody point me the way to the gym
ajay says
Namputsa…. hanep 😀
yourman says
my mussels are in the right places, in the refrigerator at the moment, but send me your recipe and they’ll be in the pot in a heartbeat…
ajay says
Yay! good grammar..you certainly pass No. 2 😛
yourman says
let’s move on to no.3 then.
I have plans on three banks. The one at 5th and Main Streets is completed, the second one, out in the suburbs along highway 99, is coming along and the third one, in the next town up north, is under feasibility studies.
I know all the locations of all the roooms including the restrooms, breakroom and the offices. I know, like the back of my hands, the station of every cashier. I am up-to-date with everything mechanical and electrical, including the locations of every surveillance camera. No single detail escaped me. I’m familiar with every single door lock.I know the inside and out of all the thick-walled vaults. I know hoe the remote banking works including the underground tubing system. Everything to a T, no nuances. I didn’t take anything for granted.I apply all my knowledge, all that I am into all the plans that I do.
Al says
No. 6 – I thought you meant wallet….until I saw pap smear! I could probably pass muster in 1,2,3,4 & 7. For 5 & 6, well, that’s for the lady to decide – diff’rent strokes for diff’rent folks, y’know! 🙂
ajay says
Yourman.. Ocean’s 14? 😛
Hi Al…hahaha. Sorry if No. 6 misled you for a while. Yes, different strokes for different folks but size of the wallet, err, bullet..matters 😀
yourman says
wait a minute…
did I tell you I’m an architect?
I do residentials, commercials or institutionals. At the moment, I’m building banks. I’m waiting for the vault equipments to be delivered for installation.
ajay says
Didn’t know that. But if you refer to No. 3, what am really interested in are the shopping malls, not banks 😛
yourman says
my point being that shopping malls exist because of banks.
are we having our first miscommunication here?