(Author's Note: I have gazillions of published articles and have kept about half of them. I thought this old article was interesting enough to be recopied in this blog, in the light of my recent post on 'Brokeback Mountain' and the subject of sexuality. FYI, this appeared under my byline in the Nov 13, 1999 (!!!) issue of Women's Journal. It's old, all right, but the revelations are ageless. Read for yourself and tell me what you think. Who knows girls, you may never look at your boyfriend/husband in the same way again) The stereotype gay is the kind often depicted ... Continue Reading...

Could you really be meant for one person for the rest of your life? I ask this now as an impartial bystander who has to contend with impatient complaints from my friends about their marriages, how routine the sex life has become (if it ever exists at all), how tempting the idea of an illicit affair is, or how earth-shaking it is, if it's in full steam already. ... Continue Reading...